Fighting about the same issues

You constantly fight about the same issues.

…and you’re probably heading for the same tantrums as I type this. Revisiting the same conflicts all over again a long way into your relationship can prove nerve wrecking and counterproductive, regardless the topic you’re fighting for. It can be dirty cloth,plate,where to go,sometimes price of items, the way you two handle the living costs, that unfriendly grimase s/he makes when s/he’s bugged, in fact the list is endless.
Always remember that the point of a relationship is for the people in it to feel good together, confident about each other and presumably a safe place to grow and experience life with a special someone. Be patient and be kind, and try to instil the same virtues in your significant other, especially if they’re short tempered or they struggle with anger management. Remember the things you are fighting for and literally take a step back each time a touchy issue emerges. If you simply can’t bear avoiding a certain topic until things cool off, suggest your partner to sit down with you and dismember the problem – deconstructing issues is a great way to get to the core of the matter...